when you forget some sort of pertinent fact and you ask someone to help you remember it and they retort with, "well, don't you remember when i told you on monday about rescheduling that appointment"? it boils my skin off the bone when people say that to me. Obviously i forgot, okay! No need to remind me that I am; getting old, losing my mind and sanity, needing yet another vacation from work. This morning i retaliated with, "WELL, obviously i FORGOT about that". i wish folks could naturally be a little kinder and gentler. Think about your words before you vomit them out all over me.